Saturday, January 14, 2012

Aches and Pains

In most life experiences, we hopefully learn to have more empathy for those who may walk in our shoes one day.  I know that going through divorce taught me to be less critical of those in a similar situation.  Many times, we think we KNOW what is going on in others' lives - but we DON'T.  Being judged by others was a very isolating experience but the reality is we are judged every day.  My heart aches for others who are in pain, whether physical or mental.   Why can't we cut each other some slack?  Am I really in a position to tell anyone what they are doing right or wrong?  The truth is that I may have life experiences that can offer insight but condemnation or judgment ISN'T my job. 

"Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar.  For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.  And he has given us this command:  Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.  1 John 4:20-21

I have been dealing with a lot of physical pain for the last 6 months.  At first, I tried to ignore it and explain it away as a pulled muscle or I slept wrong.  But, it has become unbearable.  The dreaded "F" word came up at the doctor yesterday...fibromyalgia.  Just my luck to get something that really isn't understood!  Started new medication yesterday, heading to a specialist soon and taking one day at a time.  Another new experience to share with others and a "achy, painful" body to go with it!





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